Dating Tips - Hello, I just bought your book today an

Hello, I just bought your book today and I have
to admit it was the best choice ever. Before I
bought your book I was the shy "nice" guy who
would always try to cling on girls and hardly ever
talk to any and was always wondering why I
couldn't get any phone #'s or dates. I have been
dateless for 19 years and I just finished reading
your book tonight.

Well I went out and tried some of the techniques
and I have to admit it worked like a charm. I saw
this girl (looked like a model) I went up to her
and said hi, (never done before) and she was like
hi and kept walking. Then I threw in this remark
"what did my good looks really scare you that
badly? (I am an average looking guy and I knew
this)" This stopped her in her tracks and she
actually came back and was like "What did you say
"I was like "Did my good looks really scare you
away" and she said "I guess that was it, do you
want to grab a table and talk a bit?"

Then we talked for around 20 minutes then I
looked at my watch and said look at the time I
have to get going. She said "already but we just
started". Then I said well how about you give me
your e-mail address and I can contact you when I
have some time. She told me she didn't have an e-
mail address so I asked for her phone number and
told her I would only call her about 3 times every
day. She laughed and gave it to me and I said will
I be able to get a hold of you on this number? She
said yes and even showed me her cell phone number.
It matched so I was like I will call you sometime
towards the end of the week and maybe we can meet
up and develop our "Friendship" a little more. I
walked away leaving her speechless.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

OK, first of all, you get a GOLD STAR for being
a MAN OF ACTION.

With this little story, you've shown me that
you UNDERSTAND what you're learning... and you
possess an important quality: Willingness to TRY
THINGS.

I thought that it would be interesting to talk
about the psychology of approaching and meeting
women.

Your email was a great introduction to this
topic, as it includes several subtle twists and
turns that make for interesting observation and
analysis.

Listen to me talking about "observation and
analysis"... I sound like some kind of freakin'
smart guy.

Whatever.


OBSERVATION AND ANALYSIS #1:

First you walked over and just said,
"Hi"...then, when she kept walking, you said
something that was both Cocky & Funny, and
PRICELESS.

You said, "What did my good looks really scare
you that badly?"

Now, the fact that you're an average-looking
guy REALLY makes something like this work.

With one comment you actually communicated more
than most guys communicate in HOURS.

You effectively said, "I'm not intimidated by
you, and, in fact, I'm so comfortable around
beautiful women, that I can make funny comments
like this one...".

Beautiful women walk around in the world
surrounded by BORING, needy, approval-seeking
guys. These guys are NOT appealing to women.

When someone shows up and actually demonstrates
some HUMOR and some PERSONALITY and some STRENGTH,
it really stands out.

Quick note: If you want to improve your "Cocky
and Funny skills, then you need to go and look
at THIS right now. Make sure you watch all of
the video clips, by the way...

Cocky Comedy


OBSERVATION AND ANALYSIS #2:

After chatting with her for a little while, you
said, "I have to get going".

What would most guys do in a situation like
this one?

Of course... they'd cling to this girl like
peanut butter sticks to the roof of a dog's mouth.

And what would she do?

Right... she'd RUN.

By breaking off the interaction yourself when
it was on an UP NOTE, you made yourself FAR more
attractive to her.


OBSERVATION AND ANALYSIS #3:

After you got her number, you said, "I'll call
you at the end of the week and maybe we can meet
up to develop our friendship a little more".

Beautiful.

What would most guys have done?

Right... they would have said, "Hey, maybe I
can take you out on a date this week... how does
that sound?".

In other words, they would have basically
communicated that they were needy Wussbags instead
of communicating that they understood the
situation and what they were dealing with.

And, of course, they probably wouldn't have had
a chance of seeing that woman ever again (except
in their one-handed fantasies).

I LOVE IT WHEN GUYS TAKE ACTION!

Love it!

I'm proud of you, man.

Someone come over here and give me a hug before
I start crying.

Again, you get a gold star.

One more thought...

I think that most guys would read a story like
this one and say "That sounds like B.S... that
would never work".

Well, I'll tell you something... I've seen
things like this happen so many times that I can't
even COUNT them anymore.

It's hard for most guys to believe that it's
possible to literally approach women, start
conversations, and get phone numbers and emails
within minutes... and to do it one after another,
after another...

But it IS possible.

And if you want to learn HOW to do this... then
I've got something important to tell you.

You need to check out my "Approaching Women"
DVD/CD program.

There has never been anything like this
before...

Now you can watch me and several of my special
guests teaching you EXACTLY at free online dating sit how to approach women
in EVERY possible situation.

If you'd like to learn how to approach women,
then I want you to go and watch the video clips on
my website RIGHT NOW:

Approaching Women

Here's an interesting story for you:

I have one friend who I personally saw get the
phone numbers of 25 different women over the course
of one weekend.

The amazing part is that he and I were in an
educational seminar the entire weekend...

In other words, we were busy MOST of the
time... and he got those 25 phone numbers during
breaks and evenings.

And I'd say that it took him an AVERAGE of
about 5 or 7 minutes to get each one.

It blew my mind.

Is this guy rich? Does he look like Brad Pitt?

Nope.

You wouldn't even notice him if he walked in
front of you.

Would you like to hear him talk about how he
stops women on the street and gets their phone
numbers?

Good, because there's an easy way for you to do
it...

It JUST SO HAPPENS that this particular guy is
one of SEVERAL guests that are featured on my
Advanced dating Techniques CD/DVD program.

He actually shares and DEMONSTRATES how he
stops women, starts conversations, and gets
numbers... all in step-by-step detail.

Of course, this is one small part of the
overall program.

And he's only one of several different amazing
"specialists" that are featured on it (this
program focuses on a lot of DIFFERENT areas of
dating success... and has a great introduction to
approaching women).